Wannabees

Its hurtful to see your friends move on what you once thought was unbreakable bond slaps you in the face, to see them move on so quickly like what you had did not even exist or matter to them. All those memories flushed down the drain.

They dont care what youre doing! They dont care how u doing! They dont care enough just to check up as ask whats up are is everything okay? But all they do is they rub it in your face that they move to higher social group

then suddenly you realise that they just used you for the own selfish reasons and they only come back when they need something otherwise they just dont give a shit anymore. why? You might ask? maybe you dont fit In their crowd you then you get all awkward and shy away and just start ditching randomly they dont realise it. That theres something wrong they are blinded by everything else going on around them.

Mainly due the fact that they are so self in grossed  and all they care about is their social status i would say their “wannabees” trying to hard. To be the famous “it” person  and only looking out  for whats good for them

making sure they choose  who and where  they are going to hang out with. they are so careful about it and  ensuring they taking  thousands pictures just to show everyone around  them and gloat about the fact that they are social light divas.( i mean who gives a shit anymore)

just because your different and your not  into all the gits and glamour of being famous and have your priorities straight in having genuine good friends and they dont. Instead they just put you down and you become that “friend” who they used to hang out with. All you want to a nice chill session just to relax eat and talk but all they want is to go out so they post all over that look am here am so cool

so don’t stoop to their level ever

“respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no loner serves you,grows you or makes you happy”

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Why introverts Kick Ass

The definition of an introvert is someone who prefers calm, minimally stimulating environments.

Introverts tend to feel drained after socializing, and regain their energy by spending time alone.  we  tend to be thoughtful and  creative.The best gift we have is  “we listen” and see things in a unique way.

But being an introvert is a powerful gift and it comes with a long list of advantages like

1. We choose our words carefully so others don’t have to wade through a river of bullsh** to understand what we are saying.

2. We have imagination and rich inner worlds.

3. We are more likely to access our innermost thoughts and creative ideas because we embrace solitude.

4. We are capable of great focus, which comes in handy when completing pretty much any task that requires extended periods of concentration

5. We tend to process greater volumes of information in any given situation.  It is for this reason that we tire more easily from overstimulation. For real Google it!

6. We embody the old adage “you have two ears and one mouth for a reason”.  Everyone likes to be listened to.

7. According to my research, most introverts tend to carefully think things through before acting, which has obvious advantages.  

8. We can be quite observant of both environmental and social subtleties.  While others are yammering away, we’re taking everything in and processing it in our ever-active minds.

There is an old saying that the person who says the least is also the wisest. Introverts aren’t born any wiser than anyone else, but we do have an advantage. We are built to do the kind of contemplation that turns into great insight over time.

So, who are we?  We are leaders and world-changers; we are dancers, actors, artists and performers; we are scientists, lovers of logic and left-brained geniuses; we are dreamers, adventurers, travellers and enlightenment seekers.

Reality About Love

People say that if destiny has  been written if we are meant to be its the same thing as saying there is a soul mate out there for you  and once you find your soul mate when you fall head over heels and blindly trust them not knowing the reality of the situation.

It’s frustrating because no matter what they can’t tell the difference between reality and  a fairy-tale love  they are  so blinded not knowing what will happen next until reality catches up  and smacks in the face.

once that’s over they become bitter  and ultimately turn to rage against one another  and at the end call the quits on the whole relationship  in the end they both end up back in square one wondering what if I did not rush into? what if i took my time ? but the unfortunate truth what happen has happen and cannot be undone

that’s  why people understand the difference between reality and love don’t get them mix up and regret it at the end take your time before you make a rash decision there nothing holding you back from sitting down and thinking it through

Pressure On Marriage Rant!

lets talk about this glorious topic due to society pressure and community pressure about marriage has become hard.  To be honest once you turn 18 everyone startS pouncing  on you asking  you  when are going to get married?? and hurry you don’t have a lot of time

I mean is there some sort of expiry date that if I pass a certain age that getting married is impossible i think all this is crap society pressures you to  marry young and not giving you chance you find yourself

once your done with high school next thing is marriage that’s it nothing else i mean like why??? u can’t force it on someone  like you cannot put  a time and date on it and assume that one day some guy will magically drop into your arms and boom your married i mean like it’s not a freaking game show that everyone running for the grand price.

It will happen when you are ready regardless how old you are that does not matter. The funny this about society pressure on marriage according to them they assume once you dress up and go the event and parading yourself around there  like a piece of meat that one  lady will talk to another and boom you got a guy

come on ladies let’s get realistic and it does  not matter who the guy is as long his there and ready like Jeez you have the right to choose and  see if you don’t have anything in common don’t get married simple despite the force just shut it down say no simple solution

then the added pressure of all your friend getting married around regardless of the age gaps between you and them it’s just keeps piling on i mean when will it end is it that hard to understand that you can’t force it will happen when the time is right its  one of those thing that you can’t put a time date or place on only you can do is waitpressure-get-married-when-you-want-your-weddings-just-one-more-day-in-my-life-i-cant-wear-sweat-quote-1t simple!

POSITIVE VIBES ONLY

I’ve been focusing on being positive a lot in the past month. I’ve noticed that since I started doing a few very small things like changing my lifestyle cutting out all the negativity and negative people who drag me down out my life I feel lighter like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders even helped me significantly improve my relationship with others . Keep in mind, it’s you and your inner feelings that will shine and make the biggest difference to improve the relationships you have

There are several small steps that you can take each and everyday to radiate happiness and positivity Start passing these positive vibes on to others and you’ll notice a large change in yourself and those around you

  • START EACH DAY WITH A GRATEFUL HEART.
  • I BELIEVE IN THE PERSON I WANT TO BECOME.
  • SELF-WORTH IS SO VITAL TO YOUR HAPPINESS. IF YOU DON’T FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOU, IT’S HARD TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE.
  • ONE SMALL POSITIVE THOUGHT IN THE MORNING CAN CHANGE YOUR WHOLE DAY

Dedication To Thor

Ever found that one person who is prefect and your connection is unreal endless conversation can go on does not matter the topic you always have something to say despite the fact that it’s all online you never met in person but it feel like you have known each other for a long time and you wonder if it’s all real or this just a dream then you look at your phone light up  and see  that message notification from them and instantly you start smiling and they are a constant inspiration despite the distance between you two you realised how much that person has had and impact on life and change you for better and shown  a whole view and approach on life and you realised that where was this person all this and you cannot be more thankful to have them in your life and are  very grateful to them.This is dedicated to that person to change my life i never been able to find the right words to say this to you but i just want you to know am very thankful that  you’re in life despite the facts  that us meeting was more accidental  situation but am glad i got to know you and hope to always have you in life you asked me about which post if my was inspired by you well this my way of telling this whole post is dedicated to you.

love Vs Infatuation

first off lets start this off by stating some facts I discovered recently

  • love is when you realise they aren’t perfect and it does not matter infatuation is when you find someone absolutely  prefect
  • Infatuation happens instantly. Love is a slow process.
  • Infatuation is being in love with the idea of someone. Love is being in love with who the person really is

I always thought that two were one and worked together until you realise is it love or are you just caught up in the moment and at that moment everything feels perfect that for those few second you fell like your on top of the world then you wonder am I truly in love or its juts the feeling if being infatuated by this person. Honestly you can t tell that you ca meet someone for 30 seconds and say you are in love or am I wrong?

what do you think feel free to comment down below and share your thoughts

 

 

Fake Friends

Do you truly know who your friends are ?? do they just use as pawn in their own game ?? and when lose touch for a while do  they walk out on you like they never knew you existed they thrown away all those years of memories just over a small petty issue, toss you aside for better opportunity use to get to someone close you??

lets see how can truly know that friends are your friend the definition of a friends according to the urban dictionary this what they said

A friend is someone you love and who loves you, someone you respect and who respects you, someone whom you trust and who trusts you. A friend is honest and makes you want to be honest, too. A friend is loyal.
that’s how you can tell who your friends truly are because there one about fake friend you literally through the fake ness it may the you long to figure it out but when you run the other direction before your hurt they only thing they care about is ego,status, power and money
in some cases how much cash you have cause freeloader do exist
they  are basically like a Chameleon they change their colours depending on the social circle around them you could even go when they are with another friends group and get straight out ignored cause they would not want to associate with you at that  moment  mainly due the facts that it might hurt their reputation and present you never existed in their life  they never see the good in you constantly pushing down and rejecting your ideas and never realised it .
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The struggle of a young Adult

when you finally turn 18 it’s the best feeling your finally adult free do whatever , whenever  making big decision for example, the joys of being a young adult like  ice cream for breakfast cause why  not don’t tell me you have not tried it before but their quite big draw back that quite a few  young adult go through and  feel that no understands the struggle

Yes to the outside world its like yay, do what you want but in reality it’s not  like that. For example speaking up I have very strong issue with it , in my point when you are sitting around the table with a bunch of adults they go  on about a topic and you realise that you  have really good insight on the topic and  decide to share your point of view and right then and there you are told to keep quite mainly due the fact that according to them your to little to voice your opinion which is bullshit because at the end of the decision they come to same conclusion as you and when you point out again that you had said they are you never apply your self in life you have so much potential but you don’t do anything about it and your there sitting wonder what just happen???? it’s either your too immature or you’re not applying your self enough