The Unspoken Truth About Life

             Hard Truths in Life We Must All Accept

There are some truths in life that are hard to swallow, but sometimes we are only focusing on half of the truth. 

The world does not owe you a thing…

Life is not always fair…

Some people will not like you no matter what you do…

Some people will be jealous of what you do, what you have, and your life…

Some people have made up their mind if they want to be happy or not…

You can only control what you do; not what others do…

Lasting success will take time…

Some people are not worth your time…

You can’t always get what you want…

We can control more in our life than we like to admit. This scares some people…

We cannot choose our parents or childhood experience…

Mental chains are often more powerful and enslave more people than physical chains…

Sometimes you have to be your own, one-and-only cheerleader…

There will be many tests and obstacles in your life some of which you will fail over and over…

As you start a change in your life, some people will not care and some may try to secretly hold you back

these are the facts and yeah its something no of us want to accept but this is it we can’t keep ignoring it just have found a way to deal with it

 

you are going to be judged. It doesn’t matter who you are.

Everyone feels bad when they’re judged right? Well, the most clichéd answer to the above problem is to “ not care”.Guess what, its hard to not care.

If we don’t know how to talk or have a good comeback, be it casually or in a business meeting, we are sending a message across to all who are present- “I don’t how to talk. Anyone can talk shit about me and I don’t mind being belittled in front of anyone.”

Respect? Your work defines your respect? In the 21st century, money defines your respect. Sure people are respected because of their loyalty, honesty etc. For the majority of people, money defines respect 

 
 
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COUNTDOWN OF THE BEST TV SHOWS

Hello friends!!!

Speaking of top ten, today I will be counting down my favorite TV series of all time in my opinion. You have to know, I’m a TV series person. I love movies, but TV series are the best! That’s why I decided to make this list and I hope you enjoy it. I will make a part 2 for this because there is a lot more shows i still do watch. So here goes:

THE FLASH

Barry Allen’s life changed completely when his mother died in a freak accident and his innocent father was convicted of her murder. Orphaned Barry later becomes Detective Joe West. Now a crime-scene investigator, his dedication to learning the truth about his mother’s death drives him to follow up on every new scientific advancement and urban legend. When his latest obsession – a particle accelerator heralded as a world-changing invention – causes an explosion, it creates a freak storm and Barry is struck by lightning. He awakes from a coma nine months later with the power of super speed

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ARROW

When presumed-dead billionaire playboy Oliver Queen returns home to Starling City after five years stranded on a remote island in the Pacific, he hides the changes the experience had on him. I have to be honest with this that the first 2 seasons are not that great but later on, it gets so much better

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DC LEGENDS OF TOMORROW

its a spin-off from Arrow’ and `The Flash’ have some new superhero company in Sky’s lineup with the addition of `DC’s Legends of Tomorrow’. After seeing what doom the future holds, time-traveling rogue Rip Hunter realizes heroes alone are not enough to prevent the impending catastrophe that threatens not only the planet but all of time itself. by far this one my favorite shows ever the season just keep getting better 

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RIVERDALE

Archie Andrews starts the school year with the world weighing on his shoulders. He’s decided he wants to pursue a future in the music business, but his recently ended clandestine relationship with the music teacher has left him without a mentor, and his friendship with Jughead Jones is in a bad place. Things look like they might be turning around when Veronica Lodge, a new girl, arrives. Despite the instant chemistry, Veronica is hesitant to risk a friendship with Betty — who has a crush on Archie — to pursue anything

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THE BIG BANG THEORY

best friends and roommates Leonard and Sheldon, physicists who work at the California Institute of Technology, may be able to tell everybody more than they want to know about quantum physics, but getting through most basic social situations, especially ones involving women.Theres notmuch to say about this show the only advise i can give you is you have to watch cause your missing out for sure

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JANE THE VIRGIN

The daughter of a teen mother, Jane Villanueva grew up determined not to repeat her mom’s mistakes. At 23, her life is on track; Jane is studying to be a teacher and engaged to a handsome detective who supports her decision to remain a virgin until marriage. Then a routine clinic visit flips her lipe upside down. Inseminated by a specimen meant for a patient in the next room, now-pregnant.

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GROWN-ISH

The Johnson family’s eldest daughter is taking her first steps into the real world as she heads off to college. “Grown-ish” explores the first trappings of adulthood, and Zoey must navigate through the trials and tribulations of these momentous steps. Zoey discovers that once she leaves the nest, things do not always go her way. its a spin off from the show blackish

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SUPERGIRL

At 12 years old, Kara Zor-El escapes doom on planet Krypton to find protection on Earth with the Danver family, where she grows up in the shadow of her foster-sister, Alex, and learns to hide the extraordinary powers she shares with her cousin, Superman.This suprised me to be honest i did not  have high hopes for it but it turned to have a really good storyline

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 NEW GIRL

After going through a rough breakup, awkward and upbeat Jess (Zooey Deschanel) moves in with three single guys. Intelligent and witty Nick is an underachiever who took the bartender off-ramp on his road to success. Schmidt obsesses over his social standing and looks at Jess as a personal project. Winston is a competitive former athlete who, after realizing he will never become a pro, moves into the loft. Together with Jess’ best friend, Cece, they bond to form an unlikely, and dysfunctional, family. If your into comedy shows that this is the perfect show for you its one the most hilarious shows i have watched.

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LUCIFER

Based on characters created by Neil Gaiman, Sam Kieth, and Mike Dringenberg, this series follows Lucifer, the original fallen angel, who has become dissatisfied with his life in hell. After abandoning his throne and retiring to Los Angeles, Lucifer indulges in his favorite things (women, wine, and song) — until a murder takes place outside of his upscale nightclub. This by far has an amazing storyline with a lot of plot twist

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The Secret Of A Happy Lifestyle

Everyone wants to be healthy and happy, but what are the differences between happy and unhappy people?

What is the secret to a happy life? Is it love? Is it money? Is it a fulfilling career? Simply put, your thoughts have a more powerful effect on your life than you might think.

Here are some tips to follow to live a happier lifestyle:

Stop negative thinking

“Believing in negative thoughts is the single greatest obstruction to success.”

Be yourself!

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

Be grateful 

“Every day, I like to wake up and remind myself to be grateful of the simple things.”

Don’t strive for perfection 

“Strive for continuous improvement, instead of perfection.”

live in the moment

“The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.”

 

POSTIVE MINDSET

     Hey there today I am gonna share the steps that I use every single day to keep a positive mind, trust me through expertise these steps have helped a lot in past few  months and have given a totally different outlook  on life

  • Start the day with a positive affirmation

Read positive things and speak positive things its hard at times to speak something and not think about it. Your affirmation can be anything “inhale the good shit exhale the bullshit!” “I am beautiful regardless of what anyone says” make it a daily routine and I promise you it will make feel better and change your outlook on life. 😊

 

  • Focus on the good things, however smaller

In life don’t dwell on the negative things instead magnify the positive things, so let’s focus and magnify the little positive things You are still alive, you still have a chance to change, God still loves you regardless! Stop having so much tunnel vision on the negative and place it upon the positive

  • Find humor in bad situations

Allow yourself to laugh it off even the darkest or most trying situations. Remind yourself that this situation will probably make for a good story later and try to crack a joke about it after all laughter is the best medicine 😊

 

  • Focus on the present.

I’m talking about the present—not today, not this hour, only this exact moment. Focus on this one, individual moment. Stay in the present moment. don’t worry about what will happen tomorrow or in the future focus on that day live like there’s no tomorrow 😊

 

  • Surround yourself with positive people.

talk to people who can put things into perspective and won’t feed your negative thinking. Surround yourself with friend and family that make you good don’t be afraid to cut the negative people remember it’s your happiness at stake here cut the negativity and change it positivity 😊

Almost anybody in any situation can apply these lessons to their own lives and increase their positive attitude. practice it and you will uncover the greater benefits.  Create a positivity board print quotes and stick all around your house or workplace and trust me within a matter of a few days you feel reborn 😊

 

“No matter what you’re going through, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and it may seem hard to get to it but you can do it and just keep working towards it and you’ll find the positive side of things.” Demi lovato

Wannabees

Its hurtful to see your friends move on what you once thought was unbreakable bond slaps you in the face, to see them move on so quickly like what you had did not even exist or matter to them. All those memories flushed down the drain.

They dont care what youre doing! They dont care how u doing! They dont care enough just to check up as ask whats up are is everything okay? But all they do is they rub it in your face that they move to higher social group

then suddenly you realise that they just used you for the own selfish reasons and they only come back when they need something otherwise they just dont give a shit anymore. why? You might ask? maybe you dont fit In their crowd you then you get all awkward and shy away and just start ditching randomly they dont realise it. That theres something wrong they are blinded by everything else going on around them.

Mainly due the fact that they are so self in grossed  and all they care about is their social status i would say their “wannabees” trying to hard. To be the famous “it” person  and only looking out  for whats good for them

making sure they choose  who and where  they are going to hang out with. they are so careful about it and  ensuring they taking  thousands pictures just to show everyone around  them and gloat about the fact that they are social light divas.( i mean who gives a shit anymore)

just because your different and your not  into all the gits and glamour of being famous and have your priorities straight in having genuine good friends and they dont. Instead they just put you down and you become that “friend” who they used to hang out with. All you want to a nice chill session just to relax eat and talk but all they want is to go out so they post all over that look am here am so cool

so don’t stoop to their level ever

“respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no loner serves you,grows you or makes you happy”

Why introverts Kick Ass

The definition of an introvert is someone who prefers calm, minimally stimulating environments.

Introverts tend to feel drained after socializing, and regain their energy by spending time alone.  we  tend to be thoughtful and  creative.The best gift we have is  “we listen” and see things in a unique way.

But being an introvert is a powerful gift and it comes with a long list of advantages like

1. We choose our words carefully so others don’t have to wade through a river of bullsh** to understand what we are saying.

2. We have imagination and rich inner worlds.

3. We are more likely to access our innermost thoughts and creative ideas because we embrace solitude.

4. We are capable of great focus, which comes in handy when completing pretty much any task that requires extended periods of concentration

5. We tend to process greater volumes of information in any given situation.  It is for this reason that we tire more easily from overstimulation. For real Google it!

6. We embody the old adage “you have two ears and one mouth for a reason”.  Everyone likes to be listened to.

7. According to my research, most introverts tend to carefully think things through before acting, which has obvious advantages.  

8. We can be quite observant of both environmental and social subtleties.  While others are yammering away, we’re taking everything in and processing it in our ever-active minds.

There is an old saying that the person who says the least is also the wisest. Introverts aren’t born any wiser than anyone else, but we do have an advantage. We are built to do the kind of contemplation that turns into great insight over time.

So, who are we?  We are leaders and world-changers; we are dancers, actors, artists and performers; we are scientists, lovers of logic and left-brained geniuses; we are dreamers, adventurers, travellers and enlightenment seekers.

Reality About Love

People say that if destiny has  been written if we are meant to be its the same thing as saying there is a soul mate out there for you  and once you find your soul mate when you fall head over heels and blindly trust them not knowing the reality of the situation.

It’s frustrating because no matter what they can’t tell the difference between reality and  a fairy-tale love  they are  so blinded not knowing what will happen next until reality catches up  and smacks in the face.

once that’s over they become bitter  and ultimately turn to rage against one another  and at the end call the quits on the whole relationship  in the end they both end up back in square one wondering what if I did not rush into? what if i took my time ? but the unfortunate truth what happen has happen and cannot be undone

that’s  why people understand the difference between reality and love don’t get them mix up and regret it at the end take your time before you make a rash decision there nothing holding you back from sitting down and thinking it through

Pressure On Marriage Rant!

lets talk about this glorious topic due to society pressure and community pressure about marriage has become hard.  To be honest once you turn 18 everyone startS pouncing  on you asking  you  when are going to get married?? and hurry you don’t have a lot of time

I mean is there some sort of expiry date that if I pass a certain age that getting married is impossible i think all this is crap society pressures you to  marry young and not giving you chance you find yourself

once your done with high school next thing is marriage that’s it nothing else i mean like why??? u can’t force it on someone  like you cannot put  a time and date on it and assume that one day some guy will magically drop into your arms and boom your married i mean like it’s not a freaking game show that everyone running for the grand price.

It will happen when you are ready regardless how old you are that does not matter. The funny this about society pressure on marriage according to them they assume once you dress up and go the event and parading yourself around there  like a piece of meat that one  lady will talk to another and boom you got a guy

come on ladies let’s get realistic and it does  not matter who the guy is as long his there and ready like Jeez you have the right to choose and  see if you don’t have anything in common don’t get married simple despite the force just shut it down say no simple solution

then the added pressure of all your friend getting married around regardless of the age gaps between you and them it’s just keeps piling on i mean when will it end is it that hard to understand that you can’t force it will happen when the time is right its  one of those thing that you can’t put a time date or place on only you can do is waitpressure-get-married-when-you-want-your-weddings-just-one-more-day-in-my-life-i-cant-wear-sweat-quote-1t simple!

POSITIVE VIBES ONLY

I’ve been focusing on being positive a lot in the past month. I’ve noticed that since I started doing a few very small things like changing my lifestyle cutting out all the negativity and negative people who drag me down out my life I feel lighter like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders even helped me significantly improve my relationship with others . Keep in mind, it’s you and your inner feelings that will shine and make the biggest difference to improve the relationships you have

There are several small steps that you can take each and everyday to radiate happiness and positivity Start passing these positive vibes on to others and you’ll notice a large change in yourself and those around you

  • START EACH DAY WITH A GRATEFUL HEART.
  • I BELIEVE IN THE PERSON I WANT TO BECOME.
  • SELF-WORTH IS SO VITAL TO YOUR HAPPINESS. IF YOU DON’T FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOU, IT’S HARD TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE.
  • ONE SMALL POSITIVE THOUGHT IN THE MORNING CAN CHANGE YOUR WHOLE DAY

Dedication To Thor

Ever found that one person who is prefect and your connection is unreal endless conversation can go on does not matter the topic you always have something to say despite the fact that it’s all online you never met in person but it feel like you have known each other for a long time and you wonder if it’s all real or this just a dream then you look at your phone light up  and see  that message notification from them and instantly you start smiling and they are a constant inspiration despite the distance between you two you realised how much that person has had and impact on life and change you for better and shown  a whole view and approach on life and you realised that where was this person all this and you cannot be more thankful to have them in your life and are  very grateful to them.This is dedicated to that person to change my life i never been able to find the right words to say this to you but i just want you to know am very thankful that  you’re in life despite the facts  that us meeting was more accidental  situation but am glad i got to know you and hope to always have you in life you asked me about which post if my was inspired by you well this my way of telling this whole post is dedicated to you.